Human sans Err...
At times what we do, how we behave, what we talk, what we convey is just so selfish..U fail to realize that it might have a certain impact on other people. U say it aloud later to know that the opposite person gave it such a different thought.. like if convey to some one what they mean to you & without even a second thought you expect a reply just in a similar fashion. Just not thinking that the silence in itself might have a lot to say...U get pushy n expect a certain behavior... Like u wish to go out on a dinner with certain folks & want people to tag along...if they say No, you don't wanna take it...Why??? Is it that tough??
How does it matter?? Each of us are individuals & wanna lead a life the way we wish to. The same way if you are denied or are put in a spot or held back in doing something, you loose it all... Why? 'Cos taking an answer as a "NO" ain't easy. Right??
But, if we try n speculate, do you feel its more a perception that you can't take a "NO" or is it that you are really strongly in favor of something & you find it wrong for some one else to deny what's right as per you... Now, when each of us meet people, we meet a complete bunch of people who are different in their views & thoughts. Some might like to talk & sip a cup of coffee, some might like to roam around & shop or some might wanna catch up on a drink & get sloshed. Now. how do you gauge whether its right or wrong?? Guess, the root cause always is ones brain & the thoughts running in there. You always wish the others to say "Yes" to things. Respecting them for their views & thoughts & opinions is something very less people practice.
Its more like I wanna eat ice cream, so I suggest a ice cream parlor, but some one else wants to go to KFC, would I agree?? Or would we find a mid path. This might a very stupid instance however, in life, it not always about what you want, its also about what others wish....So..gets very very necessary that we learn to accept what comes by & surely we would reach the river bank soon.... Sounds crazy eh????
How does it matter?? Each of us are individuals & wanna lead a life the way we wish to. The same way if you are denied or are put in a spot or held back in doing something, you loose it all... Why? 'Cos taking an answer as a "NO" ain't easy. Right??
But, if we try n speculate, do you feel its more a perception that you can't take a "NO" or is it that you are really strongly in favor of something & you find it wrong for some one else to deny what's right as per you... Now, when each of us meet people, we meet a complete bunch of people who are different in their views & thoughts. Some might like to talk & sip a cup of coffee, some might like to roam around & shop or some might wanna catch up on a drink & get sloshed. Now. how do you gauge whether its right or wrong?? Guess, the root cause always is ones brain & the thoughts running in there. You always wish the others to say "Yes" to things. Respecting them for their views & thoughts & opinions is something very less people practice.
Its more like I wanna eat ice cream, so I suggest a ice cream parlor, but some one else wants to go to KFC, would I agree?? Or would we find a mid path. This might a very stupid instance however, in life, it not always about what you want, its also about what others wish....So..gets very very necessary that we learn to accept what comes by & surely we would reach the river bank soon.... Sounds crazy eh????
posted by some1there at 10:57 PM
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