Money,Money,Money

Folks,each of us work some where or the other. Either we work for ourselves or someone else. But, why do we work? Is it just to make money? How much money, enough or more or exuberant amount? Guess, most of us would say so much money that I don't have to worry about it any more. Some would say so much that I could holiday in Hawaii each year,some would say so much that I could meet my daily needs, some would say so much that I could keep my loved one happy, some would say so much that I could spoil myself once in a while. Now, there is no standard answer to how much we need? Right?

That's totally fine, as individuals,each of us have varied needs & wishes to be met by a standard amount. Almighty played it quite smart out there, by letting this be an open ended question. Wow, I sound like a typical corporate product. Anyways, in this course of making money or earning money or may be stealing it for some friends of ours who believe in stealing things rather than deserving it, are we actually missing the essence of it?? Are we actually forgetting that, money is also immaterial & it's only needed for a purpose. Purpose may be to buy something to eat, wear or live in. However, off late, thanks to the so called modernization, or may be you can say complication, people would die making money but would not live enjoying it.

I come across so many many people like that day in & day out. They have so much money yet they don't know what to do with it or the secret is they don't want to spend it. They would let it die on it's own in their safety lockers locked & preserved for ages. They might miss the fact that rodents might fill their tummies on them but would not spend it. These are one kind.

Another kind are, people who claim to help people when they need money, would even go ahead & lend it but then that would be only on sheer harsh grounds & rules. And, if you ever borrow something from someone in the family who is like that, then you are dead for life. Such people make sure that you feel at the utmost worse each time, you talk to them,each time you deal with them. Even facing them would become a huge inconvenience. And all this, 'cos they have it & you don't.

Now, by saying all this, I don't mean that all are like that. I just mean that money is not permanent. Someone who has it today might be a popper tomorrow, as nothing in life is constant, when life in itself isn't. Your parents might decide the day you are born but no one can decide the day you die. Today you might live & kicking, tomorrow you might be ashes. Thus, it becomes imperative to understand & realize that money or cash or paisa or rupaiya or wealth etc would not be there forever. It's just a means or a medium to make your life function may be a little better or good.

The worse effects are made on relationships when money gets involved. It totally depends on two parties to handle the situation, yet people at times forget the importance of the human being when it comes to money. High time we take control of money matters & relationships wisely.