Wonder Why?

Possible for someone to over power you & make you do something so totally against your wishes. Pushing you into it without you being slightly involved. I mean, when people say I didn't do it but did it 'cos I was forced to. Do they escape the fact of actually performing the act?? I guess, they don't 'cos some where they are involved. So, one can't wash his/her hands off stating I didn't. Coming to relationships, each of us have different kinds & sorts of them. I am sure, atleast one of these relationships, would be worth it & you would totally want to be part of it until your last breathe. But, what about the ones, where you are just there for namesake. A kind which doesn't leave you with much to choose or differ or contribute. A kind which works not 'cos you are a part of it but 'cos you can implement your partner's whims & fancies. Now, does it really have to be important that the protagonist in each relationship is a man or it can be woman. Specially when it comes to needs of your physical body, do you really think, one person or one individual can force you into something. I am not denying the fact, that we have heard instances where people were abused & assaulted. But, are we not forgetting all those mum situations where either one of the partner is a silent victim.

It need not be for a man or a woman, but being humans, each of us have the liberty to judge & decide what do we need to do with our body. Nothing or nobody could ever take this away from you. But, when you actually don't respect yourself, how do you think others would? How do you think someone would really bother to consider your liking or disliking. The times today, have changed but have they for good. Again, I know I am not suppose to talk about good or bad, but the only thing that I am trying to say here that, is too much liberty making us loose our morals. Have morals become a lesson that we learn in school & forget after we leave??

I wonder when people say they love some one or want to marry some one or want to live their rest of the lives with some one, what are they wanting in return?? Is there any one who would say "Nothing"? None, I guess. Each & everyone of us want to have a partner for our own set of reasons,our beliefs & aspirations. But, in this entire institution of relationships, are we taking "sex" as granted??? Are we expecting our partners to actually drool to our tunes as & when we want them to. Can a man ever be abducted without his wish or are we still thinking that it's always the woman who is abused?? I am sure many of you would say its a woman who is abused, for men it's always pleasure be by force or by choice.

But, hello people, don't you think that's being opinionated??? Yeah, it sure is. I guess, all the credit goes to our upbringing, our thought which was small as a plant & now became a tree, our ideologies which always were fed in our minds from being a child.

It's time to think again, open our eyes & realize what looks beautiful & nice from the outside might be rotten deep within. Relationships too......